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I Love That You're Emotional!
Posted on July 31st, 2022
I remember the first time I heard my children say that phrase to me. “Mum, I love that you’re so emotional!”

It was the most refreshing and validating phrase I had ever heard about myself.

Oh, to be finally accepted for who I was.

Who I am.

“My name is Wendy, and I am an emotional being”.

I am a fully-fledged, happy, emotional and sensitive woman.

I always have been deep down.

And I have finally accepted that I will always be.

Yet, I spent decades feeling ashamed and in denial about it myself, my feelings and my emotions.

Emotions.

Oh yes!

Those darn Emotions.


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International Women's Day 2022
Posted on March 8th, 2022
As I write this, I am on a plane to London for what I call a ‘Self-date’.

A ‘self-date’ is a concept taken from the wonderful Julia Cameron’s book The Artist Way, in which a block of time is taken purely for oneself and by oneself.

For me, myself and I as some call it.

But how incredibly challenging a concept for many women.

I recall my own childhood of watching the women of many generations and their focus, attention, and actions.

My grandmothers were housewives and spent all their time fussing and fawning over various family members, especially the men.

My Granny Laidlaw was dispatched to boarding school (the REAL St Trinians) at the tender age of 5, when her parents, (my great grandparents), sailed off to live and work in India.

My heart bleeds for her even now for her parents to be so far away when there was no mobile phones or internet.

When I first heard about the cruel and unkind Victorian abandonment, to a stone-cold institution at this age, when many are only just starting to make sense of their surroundings, language and body; let alone loneliness and abandonment (or rejection as she viewed it) I was horrified.

Why would parents do that to their children?


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Make Younger You Proud
Posted on Sept 7th, 2021 
I remember back to a time when I was 15 years old at my grandparent’s farm.

At the side of one of their fields, I sat shivering on a frost-covered, cold stone, dyke wall, my body aching like I was being stabbed with a thousand tiny sharp knives.

Whilst I loved being amongst their many animals and outside in nature, there was little that could lift my mood and the feelings of despair that engulfed me.

I had already suffered from endometriosis pain for several years by this age and it felt it was too much to handle.

Each month I cried and grabbed my abdomen, fearing I would die.

Almost wishing I could die sometimes if only to escape the pain.

I was down.

I was sad.

And I felt alone.

My parents had their own challenges, and sadly, my mother saw me as this hindrance, a form of competition and a threat so I never received the love, affection or sense of safety from her I needed.

A daughter only really and truly seeks the love, adoration and encouragement from her mother.

How else is a daughter to learn but from her mother on how to navigate the human jungle with all its perplexities, predators and poisons?

But back to the wall…


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A New Report: Old Methologies
Posted on Aug 24th, 2021 
A new and upcoming women's health report is due to be published by the Scottish Government this week. 

 It is expected to discuss the potential improvement of diagnostic procedures and treatment for women with endometriosis.

In this podcast, Wendy shares her hopes that the natural approach to addressing endometriosis will also be discussed over and above the mainstream gynaecological medical approach of painkillers, drugs and surgery.

With new Mitomic blood tests being trialled it is time to modernise and update old, archaic and invasive diagnostic surgeries to prevent women from further harm.


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The Rise of the Rage Room
Posted on Aug 11th, 2021 
Emotions can be tricky sensations but also significant indicators of past traumas and triggers.

Some emotions that many fear is feelings of anger and rage.

Anger may be defined as a strong feeling of displeasure, hostility or aggression.

And before I explain more about some of these intense emotions, I want to make it clear that it is not okay for a parent or partner to rage at you in a way that makes you burst into tears or brings up fears for your safety.

If a parent, partner or someone close to you has raged at you regularly in the past, it may make you disown your anger and rage and leave you feeling ashamed even to acknowledge that feeling within yourself.

The explosive rage expressed by toxic, controlling and narcissistic people is ultimately used to control and manipulate you due to their insecurities.

But it is also a sign of emotional mistreatment and what many domestic abuse departments within police stations worldwide call ‘domestic emotional abuse’.

Emotions can be tricky sensations but also significant indicators of past traumas and triggers.

Some emotions that many fear is feelings of anger and rage.

Anger may be defined as a strong feeling of displeasure, hostility or aggression.

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Stranger In A White Coat With A Stethoscope
Posted on Feb 17th, 2021 
So, this week’s podcast is about highlighting the bizarre procedures that women with endometriosis are forced to go through during their endometriosis years.

In the beginning, girls turn to teenagers and assume that pain with a period is expected.

“That’s just part of being a woman dear”, your mother or granny might have mistakenly told you.
And that is what they were told and had to endure and subsequently accepted as a ‘false fact’.

The journey then begins when a woman, having endured pain for years and in some cases, decades, starts to think that perhaps this consistent pain that interferes with her life every month, is not normal.
It is a sad state of affairs that women with endometriosis believe that they are meant to suffer.

That perhaps they have done some awful deed in a former life, which is their punishment in this life!
Well, that used to be my belief.

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Analysis Paralysis & A Perpetuating Perfectionist
Posted on December 9th, 2020 
This week I have been working with a fantastic group of unique people preparing some exciting new material and events for next year. 

More will be revealed in January 2021.

However, it was not an easy decision to get here!

It has been more of a combination of years of analysis paralysis plus a petulant perfectionist.

Before I explain more, I should explain what is meant by these two phrases.

The phrase ‘analysis paralysis’, describes a situation where an individual overanalyses or overthinking a situation so much that they find no solution or take no course of action and thereby becomes “paralysed”, i.e. …

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The Gift of Grief
Posted on November 18th, 2020 
So it has been a few weeks since I last emailed or did my Podcast, and I am wondering how you are.

I had hoped to communicate sooner, but life has its way of taking a few twist and turns and testing my methodology about handling and embracing our emotions, that I talk about.

You see my 16-year-old Labrador Ginty passed away a few months ago and, up until recently, I never really fully made the time or had the time to grieve properly.

I had committed to hosting the ‘Ultimate Emotional Health Summit’ and I was focused on all the work that went with that. So, whilst I continued in preparation for that awesome event, I convinced myself I was doing okay’.

Prior to Ginty’s passing, I had long since recognised her decline with a heavy heart and great sadness.

I had spent several months in what I now understand to be called ‘anticipation grief’.

Anticipation grief is the anticipation of the pain, the passing and the loss of something. In other words, you begin the grieving process in advance of the actual loss.
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This Is Empowerment 
Posted on July 27th, 2020 
How To Step Away from Domestic Abuse & Emotional Mistreatment, Slowly, Safely and Securely - EndoBoss® Style.

Wendy K Laidlaw concludes her This is Domestic Abuse series.

She discusses how women can empower themselves from toxic people and slowly separate if they do believe they are in a toxic relationship.

Learn some of the top tips and tools to securely start to ensure a safe detachment and how to safely embrace emotions and feelings.

I couldn’t understand why I kept following the instructions, advice and directions of the ‘gynaecological experts’, yet kept getting progressively worse.

So, the first port of call for most women is the general medical doctor for advice. The GP’s training means that in the short 7 minutes they get allocated to speak to you (in the UK) they have to use some physic force to determine what is wrong with you.

By this stage, along with the perpetual progressive pain, and being worn down by the other elements of having the condition, a woman may have totally lost connection with her instincts and inner wisdom.

She, herself, knows not of what is happening in this body of hers.
She is scared, frightened, and unaware of when the next hit of debilitating pain will hit.

So she goes to a doctor (invariably a man who has never even had a period or knows what it is like to have one) to ask their opinion.

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This Is Domestic Abuse - Part 2
Posted on July 13th, 2020 
Abuse Isn't Always Physical...

Wendy K Laidlaw continues with Part 2 of the 'This is Domestic Abuse' series.

Emotional mistreatment of women with Endometriosis, may often occur in the home; a place where she is supposed to feel safe and secure. 

Yet the Office of National Statistics (ONS) estimates that 1 in 3 women and 1 in 5 children may experience various forms of domestic abuse in their lifetime. 

Wendy continues to explain what emotional mistreatment is and how to identify it. She shares information and education for women with Endometriosis and Adenomyosis to start to increase awareness of what is acceptable and unacceptable treatment from partners and/or other people around them.  

Domestic abuse comes in many covert forms and isn’t fully appreciated how it may profoundly affect the physical health, immune system and nervous system in her body.  

This subconscious degradation on a woman’s psyche and spirit may also seriously damage her emotional health, physical health and perhaps explain some prolonged illnesses.  

Sustained unkind treatment may hinder and prevent the natural healing process in the body from occurring.

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This Is Domestic Abuse - Part 1
Posted on June 29th, 2020 
You may have heard me mention on several podcasts now that I believe, in relation to the chronic condition Endometriosis, that it is The Five P’s Poisons (Produce, Products, Property, Past & People) all combined, that makes Endometriosis such a challenging condition to put in remission, and why the conventional medical route of pain killers, drugs and surgery may aggravate and irritate the already inflamed body.

I have touched on the subject of poisonous or toxic people and their effect on others in the past and how in some extreme cases may actually affect the physical and emotional health in particular to women with Endometriosis and Adenomyosis. 

The toxicity that is projected has been shown in studies to increase inflammation in the body, negatively affect hormonal levels and hinder the natural healing process.

This underground toxicity may be a partial explanation of why the conditions impact some women with Endometriosis and Adenomyosis for many years.
The Covid-19 crisis has impacted and shocked the world at large.

 Governments insisted that many communities, families and individuals were encouraged to support one another to help contain the spread of the Coronavirus.

However, in the attempt to contain the Coronavirus, governments around the world advised their populations to stay at home and/or with family.

Sadly, there is the more ugly side of the pandemic lockdown, for the many individuals who live in an abusive household. 

Targets who have had no escape from their abuser have had to endure more time contained and isolated in that toxic environment.

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Another EndoBoss® Baby Is Born!
Posted on May 10th, 2020 
Another EndoBoss® Baby is born! It is with great joy that I share how Joanna from the USA comes on to the show to introduce the birth of the beautiful Gabrielle, her 7-month-old baby girl.

Gabrielle is the baby girl that medical professionals said Joanna would never have. 

As she sits adoringly on Joanna’s knee, Joanna also shares her continued pain-free body and life as an EndoBoss®.

Joanna shared her initial success story on the EndoBoss Academy when she recorded it some 18 months ago in September 2018.

Joanna was told many times by doctors, gynaecologists and medical professionals, that after many failed IVF treatments (and dye being injected into her fallopian tubes) that she would never have a baby.

Yet Joanna’s instincts were strong and drove her to seek a different opinion and a different path. 

You may recall from her original story that after turning her back on the medical field, that treated her so poorly, she sought the help of alternative health professionals. Whilst well-meaning in their approached sadly they did not understand the complex and multi-model approach that is required to heal Endometriosis naturally. 

It was after reading my book Heal Endometriosis Naturally Without Painkillers, Drugs or Surgery that Joanna started to see some significant progress. 

So she contacted a natural medicine practitioner who prescribed a series of supplements — but sadly those supplements would reverse all her good progress, and she starts to get worse again. 

That was when Joanna decided she needed more specific support and reached out to me for a place in my online program.

Joanna’s application was accepted to join the EndoBoss® Academy and within 12 weeks started to see some significant improvements.

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Keep Calm In A Corona Virus Crisis
Posted on March 22nd, 2020
This will be an uplifting rally call to appeal to your waining spirit and soul which may be crying out for some light in a dark time.

So to reassure you, for millions of years us humans have had to overcome abject and dire situations and conditions.

Our ancestors if alive would testify to that.

We are always continually evolving and growing — and learning.

I was flying to USA in January and noticed how I was complaining to my children via facetime what terribly poor hygiene people had.

On the plane I witnessed at least 6 people coughing their lungs out and 7 people sneeze out into this plastic flying machine that was recirculating the air — now with their bacteria and water droplets in it.

What struck me the most (as a mother with 2 children I had been nagging about how ‘coughs and sneezes spread diseases’ for years) was how NONE of these people covered their noses or mouths.

The blatant disregard to the ever-evolving and resilient viruses that love this public display of poor human hygiene.

Even on the plane in January it was well known that China was in the strong wave of Corona virus getting stronger. Yet the standard safety video went on for the passengers who paid zero attention.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing but foresight is better, especially when it comes to saving a life, or some pain!” William Blake said eloquently but perhaps someone with a little insight into how quickly these viruses spread, especially with world travel being so easy (or rather, it was before Corona virus), that one of the air hostesses would have stood up at the front of the plane and taught those selfish humans how to cover their noses and mouths.

Perhaps that might have delayed or prevented the worldwide spread a little.
Who knows!

What I do know is that fear is a paralysing state to be in and are not conducive to the state we find ourselves in globally.

It is of no surprise that the selfish humans that were in hiding before are displaying their abject selfishness and stockpiling ludicrous items like toilet roll! And stockpiling food and supplies that our supermarkets are having to now put controls over.

Nice normal and considerate people understand the concept of thinking about others but this pandemic is already spotlighting the selfish ones.
I read that Boris Johnstone, the British Prime Minister, has declared it a wartime approach to the country.

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